"I'm too cold", "This food is horrible", "what a terrible pillow", "ugh, middle seat". I don't know about you, but I complain easily. Whatever bothers me it's a reason for me to say something out loud. Here's the thing, I married a problem solver, so whenever I complain Adam goes crazy trying to find a way to fix my situation. But tbh, sometimes I don't want to fix the problem, I just feel the need to complain about it, to let it out, which frustrates him even more. I realized how selfish it is to complain just because, to say out loud every single thing that bothers me. I want to try to stop myself next time I'm about to complain and think: is this something I or someone else can fix? Do I even want to do something about it? And if the answer is "no" then I will keep it to myself. I know this will take time but if I'm not conscious about it, it will never stop, in fact it will get worse. I love the way @swissmiss thinks about complaining, she likes to ask herself: will I do something about it? And if the answer is no, she stops complaining about it. But if the answer is yes, then she goes ahead and actually does everything in her power to fix that issue, and that is how she started her 4 companies. Watch her talk at @99u to learn more about this (Link on her profile)! #courageis #wining #hellofears #the100dayproject A post shared by Hello Fears (@hellofears) on Jul 1, 2017 at 10:26am PDT
